Trunk End Table Public Restroom Quandry?

Public Restroom quandry? - trunk end table

I am the father of a 1 year old and a 3-year-old. Where should I go to the toilet, if not a family bathroom. The girl is wearing diapers, I take a bath. Men or women?

Several times have the public spaces and men do not have changing tables, so he changed the boy into the trunk of my car. When I am with my wife, who is to bathe the child glued to them, and then change the child. Good for me, bad for women (which is bad for me) makes